On the train, we sat with a man from Senegal, who was doing a
pilgrimage to Fes to a very important mosque for the Muslim people from his
country, and a recently married couple and the groom’s sister. Some interesting
stories include the Senegal man sharing that he used to spend much more time in
Morocco, but so many Moroccan’s insulted him to his face not realizing that he
spoke Arabic, that he couldn’t endure the hostility. The married couple were
interesting to observe. The bride had her hands and feet covered in Henna, and
all three from the wedding party still has sparkles on them. Adam on our train
ride had to sew his shorts because they had gotten too big and as he was asking
me how he should go about doing the job, the Moroccan man said to his sister
and newly wed wife that sewing is the woman’s job not the man’s. They immediately
retorted to him that that is what Arabic men think, but it is not the same in
other cultures in the world. I said to him that women often do sew as well, but
in this case it was a challenge Adam was taking on himself.
Adam also made some friend on the train – friends whose authenticity we
would later question. Apparently Adam approached this young guy who spoke
English really well and they hit it off. Adam later came to me to say that the
guy had offered to show us around Fes for free and he needed our hotel name. I
gave it to him, since Adam was our official scammer judge. However, then the
guy wanted our address. I gave it to Adam too. Then he wanted to talk to me,
which I had no interest in doing, since I am now suspicious of all Moroccan’s
and choose to follow’s Adam’s lead – if he wanted to go with the guy I would
follow, but I wasn’t going to do any more.
When Adam came back to ask me what he thought, he shared that the guy
also has a cousin in Toronto with whom he spoke on the phone. I said honestly,
that I did not feel comfortable giving the address to our accomodation to a
stranger that we met on a train, but that I did not interact with the guy. If
there was one thing I learned in South Africa, is that people use your
information to take advantage of you, and now this individual knew where we
were staying, and even if he did show us around the following day, what was
stopping him from calling his buddies to tell them that all our things would be
unattended in this space.
I immediately saw the wheels in Adam’s head spinning. Within a few
minutes he had decided that even though his bud had given every impression of
being a good guy, it would be better to blow him off. Still the guy was
persistent trying to make plans with us for that evening and the following day.
His pleas to me were met with denials as I just wanted to rest that night. Adam
was clever in saying that we would call him to confirm the plans if they were
on, which his buddy didn’t like so much. But then when we got off the train, we
did remark it was strange that the buddy didn’t have any luggage.
When we got to the guesthouse where we were staying, it was amazing
that the owner told us a story about how two New Zealander guests of his had
met a man on the train over the previous week and had agreed to go on a tour
with the buddy they met. The buddy even had friend from NZ that were in town
(our buddy also had a Canadian friend that was going to come along). They did
the tour and long story short were scammed into buying $3000 worth of carpets
and switching accommodation only to reveal this to our guesthouse owner once
they realized they were in trouble a few days later. Nothing could be done.
Adam and I kept our mouths shut about our encounter and were glad we had
decided to blow our buddy off.
However, as soon as we arrived and started our drive through the
complicated city, then had to get out and have our driver walk us through the
maze-like alleys to our guesthouse, Adam apologized and said it was better we
had had the driver come for us. Then, when we were met by the British owner of
the guesthouse in which we were staying, Riad Dar Houdou, a 200-year restored
courtyard house in the heart of the medina, and were given our room on the top
floor, the only air conditioned room, that opens up to a terrace that overlooks
the skyline of the medina, Adam was quickly giving me puppy dog eyes knowing
that he was in trouble. He loved the place like I knew he would! So much so
that within ten minutes, he had decided it might be nice to skip Casablanca and
stay an extra night at Dar Houdou, which we ended up doing in the end to take
advantage not only of our great accommodations, but also the expertise of the
trustworthy staff at the guesthouse.
The walk to our guesthouse had been such a teaser for the plethora of
culture that lay beyond the walls of our guestroom that we quickly were out
looking for dinner. Our first night, we enjoyed two three course meals at a
fabulous restaurant in the medina for less than $20. The prices, even if more
than the Moroccan price, are still very reasonable. After we walked for a short
while seeing some of the stalls and getting our bearings, before I had to go to
bed. Adam then ventured into the night to explore. The door didn’t have a lock,
so he had locked me into our room, which was fine by me for the first night,
until I realized that Adam hadn’t taken the name of the guesthouse, the map,
the book of Morocco or even a phone number with him! I couldn’t sleep convinced
that he was going to get lost in the Medina, even though I was trying to
convince myself that even if he did have to stay out all night, that wasn’t the
worst thing and he would be found tomorrow once everything opened again. Though
he did get ‘lost’ in the sense that he was on streets he had not visited
before, he found his way home knowing the general direction of where to go.
His adventures on the first night had included visiting a pool hall,
making friends with many of the young men that hang out in the street after the
markets close, seeing how the medina (old city) changes from a bustling place
of commerce when the sun is up to a venue for young men to smoke hashish at
night, and as a foreigner, apparently he was constantly receiving offers to
partake, which he had to refuse.
Despite venturing the very narrow and dead-end ridden streets in the
dark, Adam says that he always felt very safe. The only creature that remained
in the streets besides the roaming men were the clusters of feral cats, which
Adam quickly learned, despite their skinniness, are integralt o keeping the
vermin at bay in the medina.
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